Death is but a transition from this life to another existence where there is no more pain and anguish. All the bitterness and disagreements will vanish, and the only thing that lives forever is love.

Elisabeth Kubler Ross

It is so sad to lose someone close to us, yet, if we continue to remain open to synchronicity, we will find ourselves aligned with our soul, and everything will be revealed to us at the right time.

It was a year ago that my sister René invited me over for Easter dinner. I had a strong feeling that I needed to be there. Many of you who read my column each month may recall that I lost my dear, younger sister Dannie, tragically a little over a year ago. We had always shared a special bond together. Dannie and René had both lived in the same house.

I arrived that Easter Sunday for dinner and helped prepare some of the food. There were about seven of us there that day. The tv was on as well as the stereo blasting and everyone was talking loud at the same time. I felt like I needed a quiet place to be, so I walked into the living room where it was quieter. I was drawn to the corner where Dannie’s chair was. She always used to sit there. It was an over stuffed, comfy lazy boy type of chair. I felt like connecting with Dannie’s energy that day. I tuned out the loud background sounds and remained in the peaceful silence of this place in time.

I looked beside the chair and saw Dannie’s little table and lamp. I became curious and wondered if some of the things had been overlooked when we cleared Dannie’s things out. I opened the drawer and found an envelope containing some literature and a card. The colorful card spoke to me as I read the words “Happy Easter” I opened it and there was no signature.

The Easter card felt like it was meant for me to find it on this particular day. I smiled as I held it to me. A special moment... Of all the times I’d been there since she passed away, I’d never been inspired to explore the little table next to her chair. Now I knew why I had to be there, so I could follow my inner guidance and allow synchronicity to take place.

The secret is to go with the mystery. When the situation doesn’t make sense, a larger overall message may appear if you let it unfold naturally.

Judith Orloff

Let me tell you about a very dear friend of mine who passed away just a few days ago. Her name was Mae. Mae was Cindy’s (the editor) aunt. I have been associated with this family for over 15 years and attended all of the family functions. I was considered family. The family is of Finnish descent. Mae would call me up to remind me of the craft bazaars that would be taking place at the Finnish Center. Mae was a spry 88 years “young” woman, full of energy and curiosity. She was always volunteering for different events like making things for the bazaar and being behind the table selling the items.

One particular Saturday, I went to the bazaar at the Finnish Center and purchased some handmade crafts and flea market items. I bought a ticket and even won a door prize. As I was leaving I looked over and waved good-bye to Mae. She smiled as she waved back. I noticed a different look on her face and went back over to the table she was standing behind. I put my things down and walked around to where Mae was. I reached out to her with a warm hug. After our hug she asked me “How did you know I needed that?” I told her that I saw it in her eyes and couldn’t leave without embracing her. When I left this time, she smiled and waved and this time her eyes smiled back at me. A special moment in time.

Mae even volunteered at the phenomeNEWS office each month to put labels on the first class issues. I recall walking up behind her as she would be working on the papers and placing my hands upon her shoulders. I would give her a shoulder and back massage. She would stop working and relax into it and enjoy her mini massage. Mae’s curiosity brought about her interest in metaphysics and spirituality. Her Bible was highlighted throughout.

Mae had an incredible inner strength that was like the glue that held the family together.

In her book Touched by the Extraordinary Susan Barbara Apollon states, “Synchronicities are revealings of our extrasensory or psychic relationship with one another and with the universe. Sometimes viewed as the little miracles in our lives they appear to serve as indications of being a part of a greater collective consciousness.”

Mae passed away on her son Cal and Kathy’s 45th anniversary.

Mae’s mother died on Kathy and Cal’s 12th anniversary.

Susan Barbara Apollon also states:

“Loved ones communicate with us many different ways. They communicate telepathically, in visions, during our waking and non waking hours. In dreams. Flickering with lights and electrical devices. They also move objects around. Others speak to us of their presence with the scent of a familiar cologne, perfume or flower.”

I have personally had several dreams of Dannie and we communicate together in these dreams. She lets me know she’s ok and lets me know she’s still here.

After she had passed on, René asked who wanted Dannie’s Hibiscus tree. I told her that I did. This tree is in a pot and is large. Since I never had one before I decided I wanted it because it was Dannie’s. I put it in a tall sunny window. When I first got it, it bloomed with so many beautiful peach colored blossoms. Then winter came and it didn’t bloom at all. It was dormant, just having the rich green leaves. Then three days ago on Sunday, it was the first day of spring, I went upstairs to water my tree and it had its first huge peach blossom of the season.

Everyone is still over at Mae’s clearing out the house and my mind wanders... So hard to move on, still loving what’s gone, yet life carries on and on and on, love carries on a day at a time.

Joyous Spring!

Gerri Magee is director of advertising and public relations and assistant to the editor of phenomeNEWS. She continues to share her thoughts “On The Path” in this column. You can write her at gerri@phenomenews.com.