Sometimes well-meaning people will encourage you to get happy faster than you can. And the reason that we say that is because you cannot put your radio dial on 630 AM and hear what’s being broadcast on 98.6 FM; the frequencies have to match up. And if you are in despair or fear or anger you can’t jump all the way into bliss; you can’t even get a whiff of bliss. It’s different vibrational frequency.

So, what we have noticed as we’ve been watching you, we notice that when you try to jump from anger or despair all the way to bliss, you don’t make the jump; you can’t possibly do it. And it’s not because you’re not good; it’s because Law of Attraction is not going to give you access to thought or memories or experiences or other people, that’s very far from where you are offering your vibration.

It is so important that you decide today (well, you can decide tomorrow; you can decide any time you want to, but it will be important to you when you make this decision) that you’re not going to try to jump frequencies... It doesn’t matter where you are; you can move gradually into increasingly better places.

The thing that is so important is that you, now, once and for all, make a decision that the relativity you’re going to be aware of is only going to be the relationship between how I am feeling and how I want to feel. In other words, my dominant intent is to find the better-feeling thoughts that I can find from where I am. Not the best-feeling thought I’ve ever thought that I can find from where I am. Not the best-feeling thought I’ve ever thought or not the best-feeling thought that anybody has ever thought, but just the best-feeling thought that I have access to, right now.

Decide, really soon, that you are not going to compare your emotional state with anybody else’s, because their emotional state is only about their emotional state; it doesn’t have anything to do with you. Your friend, that says, “Cheer up; be happy; come with me,” say to your friend, “I was depressed yesterday and today I’m really, really angry. And it’s the best I can do. So, don’t ask me to jump up there in your bright, fluffy, sunshine, lollipop and roses vibration; it’s not possible. It’s a quantum leap I cannot make. Go away, unless you like to be around an angry person.”

Decide that you‘re going to be aware of how you feel and that how you feel really matters and feel exhilaration when your vibration shifts. When you move from despair or fear into anger, we want you to have a triumphant feeling of celebration because that was an enormous, important movement vibrationally, and because once you get angry, you can move rather quickly into frustration and when you find that fresh breath of air that frustration gives you, we want you to stop and celebrate your achievement – but you’re not going to be able to do that if you are trying to compare yourself with where others are.

Your creativity, has only to do with your relationship with the Source energy that creates worlds. And your emotions tell you everything you need to know about that relationship. So, it doesn’t matter how happy somebody else is; it only matters how happy you are.

Do you know how, in the classroom, they’ll give you an A for this behavior and a B for this behavior and an E or and F for that behavior. And so, you begin to think that somebody up there in joy and appreciation should get the A and somebody down here in depression should get the E or the F. And what we want to say to you is, when you move from depression or fear into anger, give yourself an A, because that movement means everything. What it means is, you’ve shifted enough vibrationally that you now have access to a whole other range of thoughts and experiences. And, of course, you do not want to get stuck there in anger, but from anger you have a prayer of reaching frustration, where you can’t usually find yourself in the fresh breath of air that frustration is from despair or from fear; it’s too much of a vibrational jump.

If you’ll look back into your experience, you will begin to notice (and we don’t want you to look back too much, but just begin to viscerally feel around) that emotions are always coming in response to what you are giving your attention to. And with far less effort than it takes to learn QuickBooks on your computer, you’re going to discover that you can be in control of the way you feel, which means, you now have mastered the Art of Allowing. That means, no matter what’s going on around you, you have discovered a way to feel good and remain in Connection and when you’ve discovered that – then Well-Being must follow you everywhere you go.

Abraham – “a group of non-physical beings” – speak and teach through the physical apparatus of Esther Hicks. Esther and her mate, Jerry, present Abraham’s teachings worldwide, through seminars, books and video and audio recordings. (830) 755-2299, P.O. Box 690070, San Antonio, TX 78269, www.abraham-hicks.com