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On the morning of September 27, 1953, in a
small poor fishing village in southern India – Parayakadavu in the
Quilon district of Kerala – a baby girl was born. Her parents gave her
the name Sudhamani, meaning “ambrosial jewel.” She came into this world
not in tears as babies usually do, but with a beaming smile on her face,
as if prophesying the joy and bliss she was destined to bring into the
world.
Judith Cornell writes in the authorized
biography of Amma, Healing The Heart of the World, about Amma’s birth:
“Amma’s entire birth was silent and Damayanti (Amma’s mother) said she
felt almost nothing. When she looked at her newborn girl, Damayanti was
shocked to see that her skin was dark blue. Remembering her last baby,
who had not survived the birth, Damayanti was horrified, assuming that
since this baby was silent and blue, that it was also dead. Damayanti
began to cry. At that moment, a woman from a neighboring house happened
to stop at the open door of the Idamannel house. Quickly realizing that
Damayanti had just delivered a child, she hurried to make mother and
baby comfortable. She assured the shaken mother that the baby was alive
and breathing. Damayanti again looked at the baby’s face and was amazed
to see the baby’s dark eyes looking directly into hers with a
penetrating gaze and a benevolent smile on her tiny face.
“Damayanti, however was still not
convinced that her child was all right. The child’s legs were locked in
a cross-legged position, like the lotus posture used for meditation. Her
little thumbs and forefingers touched, each tiny hand forming a circle.
Neither woman noticed how similar the baby’s hand gestures were to the
finger position yogis used to represent the ego merging with the Higher
Self. Instead, they both thought she had some kind of skin and bone
disease like other babies who had been born in the village and needed
splints to straighten them out.
“Hundreds of years ago,” Cornell wrote,
“a prejudice toward fair-skinned people had infiltrated Indian
consciousness as a result of foreign invaders. This dark child, then,
seemed predestined to live a life of hardship and misunderstanding. From
the time she was an infant, Sudhamani was given no love and was treated
poorly and impatiently by her parents and siblings.”
Amma commented on the early years of
ill treatment by her family: “From all those experiences I clearly
understood that the world is full of sorrow. We have no true relations,
for all our relatives love us only to fulfill their own selfish needs.
Human beings love each other out of desire. Nobody loves us selflessly.
Only God loves us with selfless love.”
Sudhamani spent the years of her
childhood and teens immersed in intense spiritual practices in order to
present a living example for the world. Even as a small child, she could
often be found absorbed in deep meditation, totally oblivious of her
surroundings. By the age of five, she had already begun composing
devotional songs laden with deep mystical insight.
Amma was forced into servitude as a
victim of racial prejudice in her own family. She discovered that her
divine calling very early in life was to comfort others; she began to
demonstrate her love and compassion toward her fellow human beings.
Though only a child, Sudhamani did whatever she could to ease the
suffering of her elderly neighbors. She washed their clothes, bathed
them and even brought them food and clothing from her own home. This
giving away of things from her family’s house landed her in deep
trouble. However, no amount of physical abuse or punishment could stop
the expression of her inborn compassion. “I used to visit villages when
I was young,” Amma said. “In some of the homes there would be a lot of
food available and everyone was happy. In yet another house, the mother
and children would be huddled together and crying. When I saw that, I
brought things from my house and gave it to them.” She later said, “An
unbroken stream of love flows from me towards all beings in the cosmos.
That is my inborn nature.”
Amma has inspired and started
innumerable humanitarian services. She has earned international
recognition for her outstanding contributions to the world community.
She is recognized as an extraordinary spiritual leader by the United
Nations and by people all over the world.
Although Amma makes no claims herself,
those who watch her closely notice that she is the greatest example of
her teaching. Her disciples and believers imbibe her teachings by just
watching her.
For the past 35 years Amma has
dedicated her life to uplifting suffering humanity through the simplest
of gestures – an embrace. In this intimate manner, Amma has blessed and
consoled more than 25 million people throughout the world – black,
white, yellow and brown; rich and poor; healthy and sick; from all
spiritual traditions. The elderly, the handicapped, mothers, babies and,
in some cases, whole families have knelt before her. Amma does not
preach but hopes that people find renewed faith in their own path. Amma
explains, “As a child, I always wanted to know the cause of misery of
mankind and thought that if sorrow is a truth, then there must be a
cause and a way out. I realize my purpose is to console – to personally
wipe away tears through selfless love, compassion and service.”
Without a break, Amma spends most of
her waking hours receiving the distressed and all who come to her for
comfort, day after day. Recipients of one of Amma’s hugs have described
that they were filled with peace and felt “divine love.” Others can be
seen wiping away tears of joy after their encounter with Amma and yet
others experience a deep meditative state. This humble woman who speaks
no English is teaching a universal lesson that transcends the spoken
word — that the need for love is the common thread shared by all and is
fundamental for the human spirit to thrive.
Amma says, “Real love exists in the heart. This love cannot be spoken
and cannot be put into words. Words are in the intellect. In words,
there is no love, only ego. Go beyond words and language to the heart.”
An evening with Amma consists of
satsang (spiritual discourse), bhajan (devotional music), meditation and
darshan (Amma’s personal blessing). Using simple parables, her talks
focus on elevating love over negativity, peace over anger. “Serving
others should not be viewed as a tireless endeavor, but rather as an
opportunity given to us by God. We should be happy and thank God for
providing such opportunities.” Amma continues, “Real service is the
power that sustains this world. When human beings serve nature, nature
serves human beings.
“No work is insignificant or
meaningless. The amount of love, the amount of heart which you pour into
your work, makes it significant and beautiful.”
Once a press reporter asked Amma how
was it possible for her to embrace each and every person in the same
loving way, even if they were diseased or unpleasant. Amma replied,
“When a bee hovers over a garden of varied flowers, what it beholds is
not the difference between the flowers but the honey within them.
Similarly, Amma sees the same Supreme Self in each and every one.”
As Dr. Jane Goodall, while presenting
Amma with the 2002 Gandhi-King Award for Non-violence said, “She stands
here in front of us. God’s love in a human body.”
The following is excerpted from the
book From Amma's Heart translated and written by Swami
Amritaswarupananda Puri:”
Amma’s life is her message. In other
words, Amma does not teach anything that she herself does not practice.
Living from moment to moment in a constant state of supreme happiness,
Amma warmly embraces thousands of people day after day, wiping their
tears, giving them her divine guidance and offering solace to all who
come to her. Amma recommends the path of selfless-service through the
example of her own life.
Amma says, “The beauty and charm of
selfless love and service should not die away from the face of the
earth. The world should know that a life of dedication is possible, that
a life inspired by love and service to humanity is possible.
“Meditation and studying the
scriptures are like two sides of a coin. The engraving on that coin is
selfless service and that is what gives it its real value. Our
compassion and acts of selflessness take us to the deeper truths.
Through selfless action we can eradicate the ego that conceals the Self.
Detached, selfless action leads to liberation. Such action is not just
work; it is karma yoga.”
Amma always points out that the
purpose of one’s life is to realize who we really are. She says, “By
realizing our own Self we become full, with nothing more to gain in
life. Life becomes perfect.”
To attain this goal, Amma says that
no particular path or spiritual practice can be recommended for all.
“Just as a doctor gives different dosages or even different medications
to patients with the same ailment according to their constitution, so
does a Spiritual Master prescribe different methods to different people
to reach the same goal. Spirituality is the practical science of life.
Apart from taking us to the ultimate goal of self-realization, it also
teaches us the nature of the world and how to understand life and live
fully in the best way possible.”
However, Amma says that the path of
devotion and selfless-service is the safest and most conducive path for
many people. Amma continues, “Just by feeling (someone’s) pain you
cannot resolve it. You have to do something. If you see a blind person
who is crying, why suffer for him when you can hold his hand and help
him across the street?”
Amma says that “The real purpose of
life is to experience what is beyond this physical existence. However,
each one looks at life differently. Most human beings see life as a
constant struggle for survival. Such people believe in the theory, The
fittest will survive. They are satisfied with the normal way of living –
for example, getting a house, a job, a car, a wife, a husband, children
and enough money to live. Yes, these are important things, and we need
to focus on our day-to-day lives and to take care of our
responsibilities and obligations, small and big.
“But there is more to life, a higher
purpose, which is to know and realize who we are. By knowing who we are,
we gain everything. A feeling of complete fullness, with absolutely
nothing else to gain in life. That realization makes life perfect.
Spirituality is not blind faith; it is the ideal that eliminates
darkness. It is the principle that teaches us to face any adverse
circumstance or obstacle with a smile. Spirituality is the teaching for
the mind.”
Amma’s outreach takes two principal
forms: first, the darshan programs where she reaches out on an
individual basis and second, her charities which are designed to improve
peoples’ lives on a broader scale. Teaching by the example of her own
life, Amma blends spiritual awareness with practical social service. As
she shows us, when service is accompanied by love in the form of a
compassionate smile and kind words, those who give and those who receive
are uplifted by the sense of universal kinship. “Compassion to the poor
is our duty to God,” Amma says. “If you do spiritual practice without
performing selfless actions, it will be like building a house without
any doors.”
In this spirit, Amma’s tiny village
home has been transformed into the headquarters of the Mata
Amritanandamayi Math (MA Math) whose broad goal is to help alleviate
human suffering, wherever possible. Given the crushing poverty in India
and the larger availability of volunteer resources, Amma’s charitable
projects
have focused there. However, Amma
actively encourages devotees to serve selflessly in their own countries
and communities.
Amma’s charitable programs are
expanding rapidly. The most prominent and widespread program is the
Mother’s Kitchen project. Started in 1996, the project annually serves
over 50,000 lovingly prepared meals to the inner city poor in over 40
North American communities. Our local Mother’s Kitchen is based in Ann
Arbor, Michigan and is coordinated by the Amma Center of Michigan.
Amma has inspired innumerable
humanitarian activities all over the world. Some of them are free food
and clothing programs, shower programs for the homeless, volunteer
opportunities in battered women’s shelters, charitable hospitals,
hospices, disaster relief programs, free homes for the poor and the
needy, medical camps, prison projects, orphanage, schools, educational
institutions, widows’ pension fund, free legal advice, preservation of
nature and so on. The list is long and growing everyday.
In India, Amma’s compassion has
inspired hundreds of thousands of individuals throughout the nation to
volunteer their time and talents in order to assist those in greatest
need, regardless of caste, language or religion. Despite limited
resources, Amma’s charitable efforts continue to grow and expand
day-by-day, bringing solace to those in the most disadvantaged sectors
of society.
With utmost care and attention, Amma
directs the programs and ensures that not a single rupee goes to waste.
Today, her philanthropic movement is so broad that it defies brief
description; nevertheless, some examples of how her love and practical
compassion express themselves include: The Green Friends Network
inspires youth to take an interest in ecological issues with the
awareness that humankind is a part of Mother Nature, not separate from
her; educational and vocational programs; free food; health services,
including the internationally-recognized AIMS – Amma’s super-specialty,
1300-bed hospital – as well as a new AIDS Hospice in Kerala.
The past few years have seen natural
disasters of calamitous proportion, ranging from destructive earthquakes
and floods worldwide, to hurricanes and the devastating Southeast Asian
Tsunami. These disasters claimed many lives and left countless
individuals destitute and displaced. Led by Amma herself, Amma’s
organizations immediately reached out to those in need, offering
essential aid and fiscal support. With the power of many dedicated
volunteers, every aspect of disaster relief was addressed, from
emergency work to long-term rebuilding and rehabilitation. In response
to the terrible devastation caused by Hurricanes Katrina and Rita, MA
Center and its affiliates initiated disaster relief efforts and provided
food, clothing, school supplies and emotional support to survivors.
Amma says, “There is nothing preplanned
about Amma’s mission. All her projects have been spontaneously
compassionate responses to the sorrow and suffering that she sees around
her. There is no question of ‘how’ or ‘why.’”
She also says, “Compassion to the poor
and the needy is our duty to God. Through selfless service, we should be
able to construct a bridge of love that will bring all of us together.
The world consists of many different countries, cultures, languages,
races and people. But for Amma, there is just the world – there is only
one.” Through the example of her own life Amma has inspired people from
all over the world to walk in the path of selfless-service and
compassion towards all beings.
Judith Cornell sums it all up: “Amma’s
force for good in the world is helping to bring us back into balance. If
Amma does nothing more than she has already done, she will be remembered
as a great humanitarian and one of the greatest healers and spiritual
leaders in the history of religion.”
To learn more about Amma and her
charitable projects, please visit
www.amma.org. |