Zodiac Bad Habits And
How To Break Them
by Maria Shaw
Hey, nobody’s perfect. We
all have some annoying habits we’d like to kick and silly quirks that
drive our friends crazy. Astrology is a great way to understand
ourselves better and use as a tool to help break some of our bad habits
too.
Aries • These folks
think big. They have the most wonderful ideas and tend to get real
excited about a project or plan. Their enthusiasm is unbridled. However,
seldom does this enthusiasm last. Aries must learn to follow through on
things and see their projects to the finish line. They have grand ideas
but need to practice patience and stick to whatever they start. Their
attention span is short so it’s better to make short term goals first
and then work up to long term ones after they’ve learned patience and
perseverance,
Taurus • These
people aren’t particularly fond of change, even when it’s to their own
benefit. They take a long time to come to a decision. They get very
comfortable and often stagnant in situations and then refuse to budge
because of this comfort level. They are strong willed and stubborn too.
This trait may be a hindrance if it cause them to miss out on
opportunities. Bulls are also pack rats. Possessions make them feel
secure. It would behoove them to come up with a plan that removes
unnecessary clutter from their lives; by donating whatever don’t use or
wear to charity.
Gemini • Gemini’s
two sides can also work against them. It lends itself to an indecisive
nature and they often second guess themselves. While it is good to see
both sides of a coin, it can hinder one when coming to a clear cut
decision. It would be wise to continue to weigh everything and then once
you make up your mind about something, stick to it. Refuse to question
your decision any further.
Cancer • Cancer is
one of the food addict signs and they often find it quite difficult to
break bad eating habits. They reach for food when they often are just
looking for emotional comfort. They have a sweet tooth and can’t turn
down ice cream. It’s their favorite. It would be better if they
discovered what feeling they were trying to feed rather than reaching
for food. Sometimes they are too sensitive and take criticism from
others to heart. Crabs should try to not take things too personally.
Leo • Ask anyone
who knows a Leo and they will tell you that their Lion friend has a huge
heart and a little bit of an ego too. Some Leos have a tendency to brag
a bit. It’s not their fault, after all they are the royalty of the
Zodiac and want everyone to know just how wonderful they are. They crave
attention and admiration. But what they really want is to feel
appreciated. Once a Leo feels secure within themselves, he will not look
to the outside world for approval. The more common issues for most Leos,
is that they are workaholics and/or shopaholics.
Virgo • These folks
tend to analyze things so much that they end up driving themselves nuts.
Worry warts at heart, Virgos need to have a structured plan for every
project. They need to learn to let loose and relax. Get rid of self
imposed boundaries. Be open to some chaos and surprise. Virgos “need to
be needed.” While caring for others is wonderful, they should understand
that they are not supposed to “save” everyone. It’s important that they
allow others to make mistakes so they can learn from them.
Libra • Libra’s
lesson is to create more balance in their life as an individual and as a
loving partner. Libras often give up their own dreams and center their
world around a spouse’s. If a Libra works too much, he has no love life.
If she spend all of her time with her man, then she has no outside
world. So Libra of both sexes need to create a balance they can live
with. Also they need to be careful of overspending. They crave beautiful
things; jewelry, nice clothes, etc. It would be better for them
financially and perhaps emotionally, to look for simple but inexpensive
pleasures that will replace their need for material things.
Scorpio • Ever hear
someone say, “Don’t ever mess with a Scorpio?” This sign can hold a
grudge like no other. Scorpions don’t forget past hurts easily. If you
are born under this sign, it’s would be best to work on “letting go” and
practice more forgiveness. Scorpio needs to have control. They feel more
secure if they are in charge. Sometimes “letting go” can be very
liberating. Learn to move out of your comfort zone. Take more chances
that involve letting your “guard down” and you maybe pleasantly
surprised.
Sagittarius •
Archers speak up. And often can be very blunt... but hey, they do tell
the truth. For many of us, that truth may be too much to handle. While
Sags think they have good intentions, that doesn't take the sting out of
their words. They’ll be the first to tell you that you look horrible in
those pants. Have you put on 10 pounds? Think before you speak,
Sagittarius and then you won’t be as apt to put your foot in your mouth.
Capricorn • Cappys
should take more time to stop and smell the roses. They are the
workaholics of the zodiac. Never stopping to take time to relax,
Capricorns work hard. They set very high standards and may expect too
much from themselves and others. Learn to let your hair down from time
to time and don’t put so much pressure on yourself, Capricorn. Take more
vacations and leave the cell phone and laptop at the office.
Aquarius • It’s
often difficult for these folks to let their emotional side show. They
appear very cool, calm and collected and shy away from intimacy.
Aquarius need to let others get “close to them” and learn that it’s all
right to show their sensitive side. They are humanitarians, that often
go to the extreme trying to “save” people. They can easily come off as
self righteous or “know it alls” when they are really just trying to be
helpful. Aquarius are afraid that a relationship will stifle their
freedom. They hate to feel fenced in. They need to learn that even if
they compromise their independence in a relationship, the payoff will be
worth it.
Pisces • Dealing
with the real world can be a problem for Pisces who use escapism to
avoid harsh reality. Some Pisces drink too much, Others get lost in
daydreams. Some overeat. Others are afraid to make decisions so they
make none and put their life on hold. They obsess too much and worry
about things they cannot change. Putting more structure in life and
creating boundaries helps Pisces’ life run smoother. Trust more in
yourself and listen to your intuitive side. Stay away from overindulging
in anything from alcohol to bad relationships to shopping and guilt
trips.

Maria Shaw is the National
Enquirer's astrologer. Her weekly horoscope column is available at
newsstands around the country. She’s the author of 8 books published in
five languages and hosts her own radio show called Affairs of the Heart
which can be downloaded from her website
www.MariaShaw.com. She’s appeared
on the TV Guide Channel, VH1, E., Oxygen Channel, MTV, Fox News and
Blind Date. She writes astrology columns for Soap Opera Digest, Complete
Woman and Tigerbeat magazines. She the creator of Maria Shaw’s Goddess
Gatherings and Maria Shaw’s Conscious Living Cruises and Tours.
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