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ON THE PATH...

thoughts along the way

 

 

 

The road is long
With many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where
Who knows where
But I’m strong
Strong enough to carry him
He ain’t heavy, he’s my brother

The Hollies                

Have you ever seen the movie, The Green Mile? I saw it the other night and found it to be really powerful and very compassionate. It takes place in the 30’s and Green Mile is a term referring to death row. The movie takes place at the Cold Mountain Penitentiary in Louisiana. The prisoners who are to be executed are held there until the time that they slowly take the long walk down the green floor to the electric chair. A new inmate, John Coffey (played by Michael Clarke Duncan), is brought in for the murder of two young girls. John is innocent of the crime yet there is little chance that anyone would believe him. His six-foot-five giant presence towers way above everyone else. He is a gentle, tender-hearted man. They found him on the bank of the river, holding the dead girls and crying. He saw the whole murder scene in his mind, who committed the horrific crime and how they did it. Because he was at the scene, crying and holding the little girls, he was instantly judged guilty, convicted of the crime and taken to prison.

John had the gift of psychic vision and, along with this, he could also feel the emotions of others. He felt the little girls’ pain.

John was also able to pass on healing through his touch. While in prison he sensed a severe illness with the warden, Paul Edgecomb (played by Tom Hanks). With a touch, he took on the warden’s pain and healed him. He could do this with anybody.

John’s eyes would tear up as he spoke of how bad things happened in the world. He could feel the heaviness and the pain of it all. Your heart went out to John, for the compassion and unconditional love he had for others.

If I’m laden at all
I’m laden with sadness
That everyone’s heart
Isn’t filled with the gladness
Of love for one another

The next day after watching this movie, my twin sister Gloria called to see if I wanted to go to the store. I told her we would have to stop for gas before we ventured out because my tank was almost empty.

I picked her up. We had gone two blocks and I stopped at a light. At that moment, my car quit. This had never happened to me. I was out of gas. Now what? I called Cindy and she came right over to help and drove me to the nearest gas station. I bought a gas can and filled it. We drove back to my car and saw there was a man there wanting to help me. He had pulled his van over to the side of the road, narrowly missing getting struck by another car. He ran over and asked if he could help. He was very tall, like John, the gentle giant in the movie. He even looked a little like him. He was so kind to me. He put the gas in my tank and told me to start the motor. I did… nothing happened. He then told me to put the car in neutral. As soon as the light turned green he would get me across the street to level ground to help it start. I wondered how he would be able to run to his van and give me a push in time before the light turned green again. When the light turned green, I put it in neutral. In the rear view mirror, I saw this strong, tall man pushing my car through four lanes of traffic all by himself. I was stunned. A perfect stranger just wanting to help. How kind, I thought. When we got across the street, he pushed even further to make sure it would start. I tried the engine and it started up right away. I thanked him. He told me if it was his sister, aunt, mother or girlfriend, he would have done the same thing for them. His eyes reflected genuine caring for another in need. I asked what his name was and he told me it was Ray. I repeated, Ray? I then got out of the car and told him he was my “Ray of Light.” He reminded me so much of John from the movie. I was touched by this stranger’s kindness toward me. I gave him a warm hug and thanked him again. He truly was a godsend.

How many of us would go that extra mile to help another in distress, even to open a door for another. Just to have the love and compassion for our fellow human beings. Whenever I’ve seen The Green Mile since, I think of the gentle giant who came to my rescue one Sunday afternoon. He was my Ray of Light.

How often are we a ray of light to others with our genuine compassion and caring? Why did this man just happen to be there and come into my life?

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered.

It’s a long, long road
From which there is no return
While we’re on the way to there
Why not share
And the load
doesn’t weigh me down at all
He ain’t heavy he’s my brother

Gerri Magee is director of advertising and public relations and assistant to the editor of phenomeNEWS. She continues to share her thoughts “On The Path” in this column. She can be reached at gerri@phenomenews.com.

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