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You can spend your whole life
building something from nothing.
One storm can come
and blow it all away,
Build it anyway
Martina McBride


The anniversary of the Hurricane Katrina tragedy was August 29th, marking two long years for Louisiana and Mississippi to recover. They are still in this recovery process to this day.

All of you who read my column know of my dear friend Cajun Pam who lives in Louisiana. We met on the internet when I complimented her about a poem that she had written about a lighthouse. Her poem related that we are all lighthouses for God, shining our lights for each other.

I call her Cajun Pam, she calls me Miss Sugar and we’ve known each other for over four years. I visited her a couple of years ago and shared with you the allure and fascination of Louisiana in my article. While in Louisiana, Pam, several friends and I went to a restaurant and ate outside on a huge deck. The night was perfect with a soft, warm breeze. Pam pointed over yonder and I looked up. There was a huge lighthouse. That was the connection that began our friendship about her lighthouse poem.

When Katrina struck two years ago I was in Mexico and experienced the fierce winds as they headed for Louisiana. The headlines of the newspaper in Mexico said that everyone was to evacuate Louisiana immediately.

Pam and I remained connected throughout this time with the use of her cell phone. She and her family and friends had all evacuated to Georgia. Pam shared with me first hand what they were all experiencing.

This year hurricane Dean was doing the damage and missed Louisiana. Pam called the other night to share with me what they were experiencing. We said we would talk for only ten minutes. We talked for an hour and a half. Pam told me that many people were full of anxiety for what may happen if hurricane Dean entered Louisiana. Fortunately for them it didn’t. She told me that there is still a lost look in peoples eyes as they go about their days. She told me that the lighthouse where we had dinner that night had been damaged from Katrina and they were planning to restore it as the funds come in. She said that many doctors have left Louisiana because there aren't enough hospitals available for them to practice. More need to be built to accommodate those in need. Houses are for sale everywhere and can’t be sold. Cajun Pam told me that it didn’t get the best of her. She just has a different outlook since Katrina. Everyone she talks to says that they have changed since Katrina. Pam feels blessed to have what she has. She told me she was painting her house red so everyone can see it.

She ordered big rocks to place near her house and near the water. She lives on the bayou. When the man came to deliver the rocks he was surprised that she was hauling them all by herself and placing them around her property. He told her that the area he was from was totally demolished, his whole neighborhood was gone. There were nine families of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, sisters, brothers, mothers, fathers and cousins living in the same area. They all had their own homes and would visit each other all the time. Now, everything was gone. He told Pam that that was home to them. They want to rebuild in the same area and live like they used to live. They were all happy and close together but now they are separated and living in different areas until funding can become available for them to be together again.

I asked Pam about the little white church that I’d seen while visiting. She told me that it hadn’t been damaged too much and that there had been a new roof put on it since Katrina’s damage. I loved this little church because it looked like an old fashioned Southern church. It was white with a black pitch roof and was built in the 50s. It had a garden along the side with a couple rows of vegetables. Colorful flowers surrounded the church and wrapped around to the front doors. Pam told me that she would often drive by and see people walking from the parking lot to the little church all dressed up in their Sunday best.

Pam expressed to me that she feels a sense of loss and brokenness. Then she said that she just takes another long, deep breath and goes forward with a smile.

These people were tossed around by the storm of life and yet were rooted to the earth that they love so dearly. These were their homes, their families, friends and businesses. Their roots are here and many are staying and rebuilding. While others were overwhelmed and have left.

You can spend your whole life building something from nothing

One storm can come
and blow it all away,
Build it anyway!
Early the next morning I received a call from Pam. She told me I was the first one she called. It was her birthday.
She was excited as she reminded me of how she calls me ‘Sugar’ and how a song that has been rolling around in her head since our phone conversation last night reminded her of me. She sang it to me.
A spoonful of sugar
helps the medicine go down
the medicine go down
the medicine go down
Just a spoonful of sugar
helps the medicine go down.
Then she expressed what she meant by that. She told me that when I called last night to say I cared it was like shining a little light of love her way, like a lighthouse.

Pam said that talking with me throughout this whole time from another state (MI) shows that someone really cares. She also said, “When people genuinely care from around the country and share in thought, prayer, in spirit and from the heart, it gives her and all the people in Louisiana the strength and courage to go on.” She said that the Sugar is the love that helps the medicine go down.

I happened to catch a small portion of the Today Show where they interviewed Brad Pitt. He is connected with Global Green. www.globalgreen.org

“I’m so happy that this dream is going to become reality,” said Brad. “Today we are one small step closer to a future of smart design and a rebuilt New Orleans. We hope this project points the way to that future.” Global Green is working toward efficient, healthy and affordable home building that will strengthen entire neighborhoods.

I've been in touch with the CEO of United Way in New Orleans. Marguerite told me of the many benefits that their organization provide for the emotional, physical and monetary needs of the people who have been affected by Katrina. She said there is an address that anyone can donate to help those that are still hurting from the affects of this disaster. United Way for the greater New Orleans area 2515 Canal St. New Orleans, LA 70119, Attn: donation. Marguerite also told me, “The whole country carried us on their shoulders.” She said that people from every state have come forth to help to clean up and rebuild Louisiana.

When you dig another out of their troubles, you find a place to bury your own.

Gerri Magee is director of advertising and public relations and assistant to the editor of phenomeNEWS. She continues to share her thoughts “On The Path” in this column. She can be reached at gerri@phenomenews.com.

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